We can read in almost every psychological book about human temperaments. Im sure you already have heard about it. There are four of them: melancholic, sanguinic, stoic and choleric. And we also know, that we are born with one specific farrago of these temperaments which affects your character. The next fact is that we cannot change this farrago as well as we cannot change our characters. We can influence it to a certain extent, but cant change all of it. These are the facts.
But is that really true? Probably...it should be if every book says it. But I can say from my own experience, that people are changing. Some of them. Some people are the same all they life, some are not. I know some people who will never change. They dont have to be bad, not at all, they can be funny, crazy and things like that and never change. They will stay funny, crazy and things like that for their whole life. And then there are some people, who are changing, slowly, but constantly. I am this kind of person. Sometimes I just look back in my life and see how much I have changed. Two years ago if you told me that im crazy, i would take it as the biggest compliment you could ever gave me. But now, Im like sick of everyones saying this about me. I know I can do some crazy stuff sometimes, but I also figured, that being more serious and culm is a big asset. And in addition I found out that I really DONT have to be in the center of entertainment all the time. Just sitting and listening is so cool!! So thats nice people say Im funny, but I think my bigger feature is like ability of listening to problems of my friends, cheering up or trying to help as much as I can.
So why I have been changing and some people have not? Weird world, isnt it. But I think I just found out the answer! I belive, that everything is about God. He is the answer for every question (you know what I mean. Surely not "Hows the weather today?" "God":P) and I belive, that if I spend some time with Him, he is the one who is changing me. He is making me acting the way He wants me to act. And if this is what God wants for me, itll be my pleasure to do it! I very belive, that what He wants for me is the best. Thats it.
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